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Can a person go through life without one relationship

User Profile: practicalTriangle2333
practicalTriangle2333 January 24th, 2017

Im 22 and never had a girlfriend. I have aspergers and super shy. Im on dating sites for 5 years and the girls on there always cancel the date the day before it happens. They use the I just want to be friends excuse. Its really depressing for me.

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User Profile: HarryC
HarryC January 24th, 2017

@practicalTriangle2333

Hi there, sorry to hear that you are feeling a down about this. Things can get real frustrating and depressing when you try so hard at something and get no results. Dating sites arn't alwys the best way about finding relationships, try and find out if there are any local dating clubs near you or any dating services where people can find you a date based on your personality. I hope this help you a little bit, I'm not great with relationship advice.

Take care,

Harry

User Profile: ChromeLotus
ChromeLotus January 24th, 2017

Triangle- At 22 I wouldn't worry about not ever finding someone. You're at College age. I didn't hav my first true GF till that time. I dated a bit in high school... but that wasn't a 'relationship' The clock is by no means running out

User Profile: adaptablehouse7827
adaptablehouse7827 March 2nd, 2017

To answer the topic... according to Freud and his psycho sexual crap no. According to him sex is a basic principal that your life revolves around just like eating and sleeping. According to the fact that I am 25 and in the same boat you are in I would beg to differ. Unless you count a time when an old coworker was going full 'notice me senpai' any time I seen him but as my windmill doesn't tilt that way I don't count it. TLDR any tips?

User Profile: Daydreamer47
Daydreamer47 March 9th, 2017

@practicalTriangle2333 hey i can relate to you because i'm 27, have social anxiety and never had a significant other (although i have been informally seeing someone for a month or two and just broke it off before it became a "relationship" so close but no cigar).

maybe you could have a friend help with your profile or help introduce you to someone? it's great you are trying the sites. just take baby steps to create connections with some people and you'll inch closer to it. <3

User Profile: AFullmetalBatman
AFullmetalBatman March 28th, 2017

@practicalTriangle2333 I never had a meanfully relation in general except with my sister.

https://www.7cups.com/forum/LonelinessSupportCommunity_78/Letsfeellonelytogether_311/MystoryhowStarWarsencouragedmetotellmystoryTellyourSTORY_64742/

User Profile: superwolfchild
superwolfchild April 9th, 2017

@practicalTriangle2333 yeah it's completley possible

User Profile: Athilahbliss34
Athilahbliss34 June 30th, 2017

@practicalTriangle2333

Maybe some of that girl think you just wanna be friends cause you're shy?? But dont worry, someone will come to your life^^ its just not now, maybe in the future ^_^ stay strong and dont give up!! You're still young >_<

User Profile: SpeedofClocks
SpeedofClocks November 8th, 2017

@practicalTriangle2333 I'm way late for this, but no one has to go their whole life without a relationship. Some people have done so depending on circumstances, but there's a good chance that someone will find you before you find them.heart

User Profile: RecoveringFlower
RecoveringFlower December 1st, 2017

Probably not, I

User Profile: tluper6491
tluper6491 December 1st, 2017

I'm sure I will. I can't imagine someone loving me like that or even spending the time to really get to know me.