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I feel physically Ill at the thought of being in any physical contact with anyone else after my breakup

User Profile: TooBasedToCare
TooBasedToCare September 9th, 2025

The love of my life ended our relationship after 6 years and while I hate being here I have tried to put myself back out there to meet someone else, this is 9 months after the breakup yet I feel physically Ill and violent when I have the though of being with anyone else.

I am unsure if this will go away or if this is me now, Any advice? I don't want to hurt someone because of this.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 September 10th, 2025

@TooBasedToCare

🥺

Six years is a long time!

I'm sorry you are still hurting.

There's no set timeline but you'll know yourself when you feel ready .

Perhaps take the pressure out of the situation and meet people first through a hobby or casual setting.

Don't focus on hurting others but on healing you.

You do deserve to be happy again!

💕💜

User Profile: Priyapjw1
Priyapjw1 November 30th, 2025

@TooBasedToCareI’m sorry you’re hurting so much. Healing takes time, and it’s okay to feel this way after such a deep connection. Be patient with yourself—you will find peace and love again when you’re ready. You’re not alone.