Is this normal?
I feel like as we get older, friends are more distant because they have their own lives. I don’t know why, I feel like I just want to move to another country and disappear from everyone. Never be in contact. Ever.
@Toaster2k20
What you describe is happening that people are either busy or think you are... many do not contact by assuming that working out a time frame is not going to be easy.......
When you think about leaving and disappearing to another place what do you see in your mind the outcome being? If you think your friends well be talking saying "where do you think Toaster went?" then I think you want them to notice and care you moved away.
You would like to reconnect and try to fit more time to spend in each others lives. For example person A they assume others are busy and then they slowly do not reach out .......while the others wonder if Person A must be too busy they have not called .. and sometimes both sides are sitting at home bored.
IF you give no thought of IF they say "remember Toaster wonder what they are doing now? then i think you are hoping to start all over and Hope the friends you make in new home ....... stay connected and not become too busy and repeat the same process.
