Loneliness loneliness loneliness
Loneliness has made me second guess myself a lot. It's made me feel like I'm weak on my own. It's made me feel like I'm incapable of making bonds with others. I really need to work on believing in myself and finding my own strength rather than finding my strength in others. It's going to be hard, but I just really want to get to a stage where I am at peace with myself and then I'll be much stronger when people in my life leave me and it'll give me the strength to stay away from toxic people.
I feel exactly the same as you right now. Sometimes I do have good days where I finally feel strong and sure of myself on my own, but then I'll spend a few days with people and once they leave I can't stand being on my own again. It's so hard, but I have hope that I'll get stronger in time. And so will you! :)
@Seraphical I'm glad we are both not alone in the matter! 🙂
Hey again!
Yeah I can very much relate.
We are alone together!
@King0fclubs yay lets all be alone together! :)
@LunesPrunes228 is there a place for another lonely soul? :,)
@wishfulFaith97 of course! Come join us!! :')
@LunesPrunes228 Thank you a lot ^^
@LunesPrunes228
It's good to feel that you are not alone even in loneliness
I feel lonely, too, even when I'm with friends. But when I do something for others, (like listening here at 7 cups), the feeling decreases.
@LikeGrass that's very thoughtful of you, keep it up! I hope the lonely feeling only decreases more for you!
This feeling of constant loneliness is starting to get to me. Ive been left and hurt so many times by people recently that I find myself pushing out the people who want to help. This intensifys the lonley feeling. I want to be lonley and I want to have people who care it's just so hard to trust that I won't get hurt again because I don't think I can handle that.
@SomeoneGood I 100% get what we mean. Unfortunately in life gaining and loosing happens. I think both of us need to learn how to cope with loosing, how to let go and move on and build on believing in our selves. I hope both of us gets to that place one day, but for now good luck and keep pushing on!
@SomeoneGood
I feel the same way. I seem to attract people easily but I am so worried about being betrayed and abandoned that i push people away and become nasty to them to give them an actual reason to leave... otherwise i get hurt if i was being my normal self (nice) and they leave which makes no sense to me. I no longer know how to make friends and it's eating me uo inside.
@happyrayne aw :( well I think what's best or the time being is that you focus on yourself before having relationship with others. A bad relationship with yourself effects relationships with other which I'm sure you can agree. I have faith in you! :)
@LunesPrunes228 I can relate to everything you wrote.
@Exist56 I'm glad my post was about to relate, I hope it's a bit comforting to know you're not alone in this!
Exactly, and it's a feeling really heavy to care. It begin to become the only problem. How funny is it, when i am with people, at the moment we left each others i feel deeply alone... But you're true it's about learning to love yourself and maybe not comparing to others.
@LikelyBlueSh I'm glad you agree! I hope you get to a place where you can love yourself soon, I believe that you can so don't give up! :)
@LunesPrunes228 Thanks to you, i hope the same for you :)
I find myself wanting to reach out. Then getting anxious because I know I might negatively internalize a response that is just as simple as the person is too busy at the moment. So I pull back and scold myself for being a coward.
@neonStrawberries879 I get what you mean! Just don't give up trying keep pushing yourself to do things like that, one day you'll have that much exposure to it it'll hopefully not bother you anymore!
@LunesPrunes228
That's good advice, thank you!
@neonStrawberries879 no problem! :D
Loneliness is a miserable feeling. I wish more listeners understood that they just need to be there for us and just chit chat, make jokes and just be normal. We lonely people don't always alot to discuss or say as we can still think fine for the most part. We just need some life to be around us.
Hope you all feel much better soon. Miserable feeling, it really is.
Listeners please don't be afraid to take a chance and make a joke.
@helpfulRaspberries5303 I agree with you 100% not all the time there is something wrong sometimes we just need a good conversation and easy and judgement less interaction!
I'm here if you ever want to just chit chat
I think the most painful thing on this planet is loneliness, having no one, even if there are crowds everywhere😥😥even parents not loving unconditionally they think men are just for making money and serving the family it's so, pathetic
@LunesPrunes228
Same situation but had to endure it for much longer.
Please
do everything you can to escape this now because the longer you stay in
it the harder it becomes to get out. Do it now and not later.
Good luck and wish you the best.