Loneliness loneliness loneliness
Loneliness has made me second guess myself a lot. It's made me feel like I'm weak on my own. It's made me feel like I'm incapable of making bonds with others. I really need to work on believing in myself and finding my own strength rather than finding my strength in others. It's going to be hard, but I just really want to get to a stage where I am at peace with myself and then I'll be much stronger when people in my life leave me and it'll give me the strength to stay away from toxic people.
@LunesPrunes228
I'm also struggling with loneliness and sometimes I feel like my friends dont reciprocate the same amount of care as I give to them. But I'm trying to feel better at being alone in general. Hope it gets better for you too.
@LunesPrunes228 congradulations. you're in for a fantastic voyage. check out meetup.com on the 'net. take things in part act. go out for a couple days a week. don't complain about anything. avoid complainers or overly-friendly people. do what the 'average' person would do, although the realm of averageness is vast. even if you feel cruddier after going to some group, endorse yourself and stick it our or find a better fit. bars and chat lines are like betting on the least favorite horse at a track, but don't rule them out completely. try volunteering, as well. if you don't have time for all of this, make time for it. keep in touch.
