What's wrong with me?
What's wrong with me? Why does no one want to talk to me? I really need someone. Or anyone. I really need anyone. I'm so alone. Won't somebody tell what's wrong with me? Somebody... anybody?
Why do you think there is something wrong with you? And why do you feel that no one will listen? Have you tried connecting with any of the listeners on this site? Not everyone is a good listener, but there are some people here who would love to listen and help you as best as they can.
Hey MickeyKat, I'm really sorry to hear you're feeling so alone! I know how it feels to think that there is something wrong with yourself, and how tough it can be to cope with those feelings, but the fact that you are here on this website reaching out takes so much strength!If you ever want to message me for a chat, I would be happy to talk to you and get to know you better!
Shanna, it is nice for you to offer to chat with me but I feel I will just waste your time, just like I've done with the others. I know the result will undoubtably be the same. I'm beyond help. I will probably end up deleting my account. Thanks anyway.
I understand how you feel, but my time is never wasted here! Is there anything in particular about your chats in the pastthat made them unhelpful? Or anything you wish would have gone differently?
I debated saying this but I've been blocked by more than a few listeners. I honestly don'tunderstandwhy. I don't know what I did wrong. I try my hardest not to be offensive or anything. The last person blocked me after I told them I was feeling lonely... That's all I said. I didn't know being lonely was such a bad thing. I just wanted someone to talk to but I ended up feeling more lonely and like I had done something wrong. Like I said, this has happened several times before. There must be something wrong with me for this to keep happening.
Unfortunately, I've been hearing more often lately that members are getting blocked for no reasons and I'm sorry that has happened to you as well! It definitely is not a reflection on you, but rather a reflection on listeners abusing the block button and I'm sad to hear that is occurring. Feeling lonely isn't wrong, and I'm sorry your experience here has made you feel that it is, and has increased those feelings for you. If you want to give it another shot, I am happy to talk with you (and certainly not block you) but I understand if you're fed up with the site, I would feel disheartened too. If you remember any of the usernames of the listeners who blocked you, you could also report them to the staff if you feel they aren't fulfilling their duties here, it's good for the site to get feedback like that to prevent listeners from abusing the button in the future.
Thank you for letting us know. We are problem solving this now.
