Self-hatred
Does anyone else experience intense self-hatred, and if so, how do you deal with it? I cannot find anything about myself that I like; I constantly judge myself and compare my looks/intelligence/behaviour/etc to others. It makes me feel worthless as a person :( I am so flawed. Please help.
@quickwittedPine3461
I used to be exactly like how you are now. I tried a lot of different things but the one thing that I found helped me was to take my mind off of things ... When I would start feeling this way I would do a craft, read a book, play a computer game, something like that.
I feel the same. Like you, I'm hoping this will help.
@quickwittedPine3461 OH yeah definitely! I'm my own worst critic, my own worst enemy & it's a horrible feeling. I wish I knew how to overcome it but so far I haven't figured it out.
@quickwittedPine3461 I have had a few bouts of self-hatred before. I know how hard it can be to realize that you are a good person and you don't have to judge yourself by how others look. It takes time and a lot of effort to focus on the good parts of yourself. I think you will be able to see how beautiful and intelligent you are someday soon. Good luck on your journey, be safe <3
@quickwittedPine3461
Often I find myself in the same place as you, literally hating all of me. However, I have grown to love myself because if I love myself then someone else will be able to love me aswell. I just focus on other things such as my studies and tend to not spend years staring at myself in the mirror.
I hate myself and my brain has me convinced I deserve it. I'm not saying that's right but it's how it makes me think.
@quickwittedPine3461
you feel totally as same as me :'( and the most important thing that I'm a disappointment to my parents...i just can't make them happy 😥...i want to see them happy because of me... sometimes when thet are happy..., it's so satisfying to see the smile on their faces :/
i hate myself because i compare myself to others...my intelligence,my face and my body language and most importantly I'm such a disappointment to my parents...,i just can't make them happy
Hate myself a lot too and struggling with wanting to die and taking my own life. Morbid but true.
@adoredHug70
Dont take your life. 💜
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@quickwittedPine3461 Idon't think it is abt being flawed everybofy is flawed..but so unwanted,never been through anything and didn't ruin, I'm such a terrible human..I self harm..i make cuts all over my body, i tried to suicide once and i really feel it is coming again i'm done with this world
@rawaneliwaa
I experience deep bouts of self-hate that threaten to drive me to the brink.
I still hold on for various reasons and I hope you do too.
Sometimes all you can do is distract yourself, cry it out and/or sleep or whatever soothes you.
But no matter what — hold on. 💜
You never know when hope may find you. 💜💜💜
