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I feel like I have nothing going for me

User Profile: timotheestan
timotheestan August 13th, 2021

I can’t help but compare myself to this other girl that seems to have everything she could want. This girl is my coworker, who started dating the coworker I had a huge crush on. She gets to work at all the same times as him, her parents bought her a brand new car, she’s super pretty, and everyone loves her at work. She has super good grades, and makes friends super easily. I just wanted to get that off my chest.

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User Profile: patientCup835
patientCup835 August 13th, 2021

I’m sorry you had to experience this feeling of needing to compare yourself to this girl , I know I have definitely gone though this feeling of needing to compare myself to others even though I do not want to but y,know it kinda happens when we see and think that this one person has everything we could ever dream of . And it’s completely normal that you feel this way because we are all human and we feel like we need to compare or try to be better than this other person but in reality just being you is enough and perfect in its own little way : )

User Profile: wishfulRose80
wishfulRose80 August 15th, 2021

Hey, thanks for sharing. I can definitely understand how you feel. I've been comparing myself to people for a long time. Its one of the reasons why I hate going out in public. That's like the first thing I do, and it makes me feel even worse about myself. Comparison only hurts 😔. The best we can do is try to be the best versions of ourselves. Please feel free to watch this video for encouragement: https://youtu.be/6a1p1_jzM14