I'm worthless and a failure
I could never make my mother happy, she just complains and complains, am I stupid, am I not good enough? Why......why can't she ever understand....always blaming me for everything.....I'm a mistake....I'm such a mistake....someone....anyone.....help me....cutting myself is feeling painless now....anyone have any other ways to hurt myself🥲
@Im0not0fine0 I'm very sorry to know your mother's so hard on you :( someone else's expectations of you shouldn't have to define you ever, it is hard to realize this but I hope you can try telling yourself that you get to decide if you're good enough for you .... rest of the world doesn't matter
It is upsetting how her complaining nature has led you to feel that you're a mistake and need to harm yourself as a pinish :( you do not deserve this <3 please take care ok?
would you like to try other ways of letting out your anger and other feelings? like writing here, it can be helpful also, you can also try scribbling on paper it is lowkey very liberating till the pen tip breaks 😅
@Im0not0fine0
Hello, I will try my best to say something that maybe will make you feel a tiny tiny bit better at the moment, I’m not an expert.
I can not say that I know how it feels cause that is not the case, but i can just imagine how painful it is to see such an important figure in our live -mother- be so disappointed in us. Thats not what a mother should be doing.
But even though she is such an important person she is NOT who defines you and who is on command of your life. You and only you can decide what to, we don’t know it yet but we say that life is only one, it is better to live it at the fullest. So sometimes, just sometimes try taking a break from everything and think about YOU. YOU are important, YOU matter, YOUR mental and physical health matter, YOU are worth of being happy, YOU are the protagonist of YOUR life. Try to think of you and not of others want you, just what makes you feel better.
I heard that a useful technique to feel better is to write letters to the person/thing or about the person/thing that is making you feel upset and then destroy the letters like burning them or things like that. I don’t know if you already knew that or tried that. And I know nothing about you so I can not give you advice just saying something I hear.
Don’t give up and take care ♡
a random person
ps. Sorry for some eventual grammatical errors I’m not native inglish
You truly don't deserve what your mom is saying and I am so sorry that you are experiencing it. Do you have other people in your life that you can talk to about the abuse that you are experiencing?@Im0not0fine0