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Optimisticempath
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*Exists* 

*apologizes for existing* 

"Can't come to the phone right now. Why? Cause this person does not exist!"💀 

Be kind to everyone Or at least try💗

"Stop sulking! Get over it"

"Keep your guard up always, it's the only way to survive you know anyway"

Appreciate anyone in cups (you can appreciate yourself also) by Clicking on button below🔽

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Special people: 
(if you want to be added to this you can remind me 💕) 

💫mytwistedsoul (they are the light of my life, extremely sweet and loving and kind and always so caring *loves soul)


💫amiablebunny4016 (bunweee bestie is the bestest ever, always v sweet and thoughtful 💕)



💫theriverissinging (they a vv kind listener and do amazing in cups) 
 
💫nonethewiser (they maybe left cups 😔 but they vv kind and supportive and always had good things to say, i hope you're well Jess) 

 I'll mention more people when I get the chance to 😅 but please if you read this, you're special already and I hope you're doing ok💕










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experiment ish?
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 July 10th
...See more this is just a random thought I had and tried and wanted to share with you too …  if you talk to ChatGPT or any AI bots etc especially if there’s a saved history option in them and they can access chat history… you can try asking it “ real talk… no fluff..  based on how much you know me so far, what do you think are my biggest insecurities and what would you tell me if you were allowed to be direct, how to make these disappear?”  and another prompt … “tell me 15 appreciable things about me based on what you know me about that I always over look and not credit myself enough for? be genuine and don’t sugar coat please” idk lol i just found some pretty insightful things about myself and the 2nd prompt made me feel kinda better too xD  if you try any of the prompts … you can also share your experience in the comments here 🤗 I recommend the second one more 💕💕
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International Men’s Day
Men's Issues / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 November 19th, 2025
...See more Hi everyone 💙💙  I just wanted to take a moment in wishing every human identifying themself as a male … a vv happy international men’s day 💙 To the men and male-identifying individuals in our 7 Cups community: 🤗 We see your strength, not just in what you endure, but in your courage to be vulnerable. 💙 We honor your contributions, not just in providing, but in your capacity to care, listen, and support. 🤗 We value your presence, especially when you choose to reach out for help or lend an ear to another. In a world that often teaches you to stand alone and stand courageous, remember this: Your emotional health is your truest strength. Asking for support is not a sign of weakness…. it is the ultimate act of self-respect and courageeee! You inspire others when you are being yourself… the you that you were before the society told you how you should be!!!  Thank you for showing up for your friends, for your family, and for this community.  To every human who is trying to be a better person for themself and others… you are appreciated! You are valued. You are enough. You are not alone.  You really are and if no one else has told you this in sometime then please let this be your reminder and I also hope you will remind yourself of how amazing you are not just today but everyday 💙💙💙💙
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idk what to title
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 October 30th, 2025
...See more people people… endless noise ..  no people … endlesss noise intensifies  then what do you want human?  I DONT KnOWWWW … wish I did but I don’t I’m sorry so very sorry 😔😔 it’s a paradox to be a human … I would’ve been better off as a tree or something idk would have served some purpose too then maybe … like ya know?? exhaling oxygen for others to breathe and live or stuff like that … 
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this is so bad …
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 November 3rd, 2025
...See more my anxiety is over the roof…. feeling so panicky 🥺🥺🥺🥺 a v tight feeling in my chest … idk what to do … it’s so bad in my mind rn.. only chaos … people around can’t stop talking and yelling ….. it’s feeling like a lot… hard to hold back from crying but can’t even cry with them around…. make them stop… people… thoughts… every one… everything … just stop please stopppp …. 😔😔😔😔  i need to hide…. there’s no place for hiding … 
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Expressing anger?
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 October 7th, 2025
...See more I feel anger is one of the most misjudged emotions… a lot of times it’s not anger that people feel but a number of other suppressed emotions that eventually turn to anger … or at least that is what I feel for myself … im not a angry person.. not for others at least…. more often than not it’s just myself who I find hard to forgive …  but idk though… how does one express anger? are there any safe or healthy ways to do so?  it’s one of the emotions I don’t know how to process or express I think … like it’s just hard and overwhelming and I’d rather shut down and isolate than do something about it.. even if it’s internally suffocating… 🥲 how do you feel about anger as an emotion? how do you express it usually? 
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Sick. Bored. Alone 🥲
General Support / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 November 4th, 2025
...See more the title is giving a Netflix  thriller series lol😭 fr people tho… im feeling v sick… can’t move around much…high fever.. constant headache and body pain sick… but also that so many meds are all interfering too much within the system and my sleep is whackkk at this point… so idk what to really do …  what makes you feel better when you’re sick?😭 any fun ideas … low effort ones .. to pass my time a lil when I can’t sleep? and to keep away meanie thoughts too…  im struggling to eat properly … not much tastes good to me rn.. its so weird.. but need to eat .. because ew meds 🥲😭  any easy to cook recipes? No-meat ones please….  relying on self currently for all of it and idk lol keeping myself alive on ramen and cheese toast 😭 
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anything nice would be nice 🥲
Relationship Stress / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 August 31st, 2025
...See more tbh my views on relationships and luv have been severely impacted… badly…. it won’t be a lie if I admit here that I’m scared… of these things… relationships..  intimacy.. affection… luv…getting close to people in general is scary but even more … on a romantic front… if that makes sense…  personal experiences… peer experiences… observations… things I’ve seen and heard around… have had a major role in this… and it cannot be reversed entirely I feel… it’s all v true and it’s all v real so I’m not asking for validation on any of it but I’m simply trying to make some effort in…. I guess… diversifying my perspective? hear more about the good stuff? still believable things… good things… genuine things… because sadly usually i see more of negative talk around these … and it’s hard to still stay positive or hopeful …  this message is likely a prompt to ask for anyone seeing this to share their experiences ? please… any good ones… could be from past relationships or current ones… or the hopefulness about future one… lessons you’ve learned or things that have made you a better person… your favorite things about being in luv, about LOVE??, relationships, your partner… you as a partner… anything related to this.. that your comfy sharing 💕💕 kinda wanna see some healthy luv related stories and reminders here I guess … and wanna cheer for you too 🥺🥺
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The summer I turned pretty … confused lmao
TV & Movies / by Optimisticempath
Last post
 September 17th, 2025
...See more guyssss is anyone else watching this show??? the summer I turned pretty… on prime video …  does anyone wanna discuss or like share thoughts here about the show, characters etc???😭 id luv to discuss and exchange thoughts and emotions around the show here if someone else wanna join please feel welcome 💕💕💕💕💕
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