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I think my dad hates me.

User Profile: AbigailMadden
AbigailMadden December 5th, 2025

I think my dad hates me. I have a tendency to accidentally break things, it happens pretty often. My dad gets really angry about it. I don’t do it on purpose, I don’t even know how it keeps happening. It feels like no matter what I do, I destroy things and hurt the people I love. Tonight I accidentally broke something, and when I went back to my room, I heard him yelling about it to my mom. Obviously, I cried a lot. He knows the walls are thin in our house, and he knows I could hear him. It just really hit me hard when I heard him say “she breaks everything she touches”. He’s right. I break and destroy everything I touch. Not even just objects. Friendships, relationships, opportunities, etc. I ruin everything. I’m sick of being garbage.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 December 5th, 2025

@AbigailMadden

You are absolutely not a piece of garbage.

And I'm sure he doesn't hate you.

Accidents happen, it's not like you did it on purpose.

We can all be little more mindful and your dad over reacted 💖💜

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User Profile: HeavenAngelFreeWings
HeavenAngelFreeWings December 5th, 2025

You are not garbage, don't say that about yourself. You could just be clumsy, a lot of people are. I also break things often, and I also feel bad, my parents also get mad at me, mainly my step mom, but she ends up forgiving me, but I still am sad about it.