why does no one want to help me or get me
hello. for the past year i have been dealing with depression. for the past year i have been on thsi site trying to get help or support and i realized that most people on this site don't like me very much. they stop talking to me and some listeners i talked to never seem to get my pain. i feel like they just take my problems as a small thing, i am writing as i am crying and i have posted many many thread and very little people seem to care. why, what i have to done to be this hated and miunderstood. most listener stop talking to me after 10 mints and don't even answer me back. it's like as if they don;t even want to help me anymore. i am not even sure what to do anymore. most listeners hate me and most people in real life don't care about me or like me either. i am a loser and there isn't anything else i can do. my head hurts and i have no idea how i can live anymore. please help me. i have no idea how long i can last this pain. please just help me please.
Take a deep breath I care about you You are so strong and you still didn’t give up. Some listeners are just not the right fit but you will find someone who is one the same page as you. I wrote several paragraphs only to not get a reply just today. I never had depression so I don’t know what it feels like but it shurely is draining. I am so proud of you for not giving up and look how far you have come. It is not going to be easy it is not going to be fast, but you will get better. You will see a tiny fade of light. You have to grab onto that and hold on it for your dear life. It doesn’t matter if others feel like you don’t go trough pain or if they assume anything about you. Only you know whats going on inside of you and what battle you have to fight every day. You are so worthy of life! Another deep breath Have you talked to your person of trust? If there is no person (but theres me now so..) write your thoughts down. In a Notebook on a piece of old paper in a diary or on you phone : just write it will help you understand youself better And don’t forget : there are people that care about you, and when nit in the real world there is at least one stranger out here that tells you that you have to no give up❣️
@thoughtfulNectarine3611 thank you so so so much for the kind words. it really means a lot to me. i really hope so. i do write kinda and i guess that won't be a bad idea. though i am not really sure if i didn't really do much or if people will like me because i don't have much of a personality. thank you so much though <3
Oh it is a bit random but did you get into personality types? Maybe you can find people who can relate to you more strongly when they are you personality type You are not alone ❣️
@thoughtfulNectarine3611 it's okay. no i didn;t get into that. when i say i have no personality i mean that i am not that interesting and very boring :(
Oh no it describes how you take the world in and how you process it. This can help you to improve yourself and I do think that you have a good personality ❣️
@thoughtfulNectarine3611 i see. thank you so much! i will give it a try right now to see what it's about. thank you once again <3
Tell me the results Snd check with the cocknitive functions, they are more trustworthy than the tests. Just do some tests an research ❣️ Good luck
@thoughtfulNectarine3611 i already did one and not sure if it's true or not. i got INFJ-A so there is that.
