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I’m sick and tired of being sick and tired

I’m so over being a burden to anyone in my life because of my disability. When I need help or assistance it feels like I’m forcing my loved ones to help me. It doesn’t help that they tell me that my disability is ruining their life’s so I stopped asking for help and now I’m just alone. I’m sick and tired of it.

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain May 27th

All I can say is I hear your frustrations and understand them but it's not your fault you have health issues and your needs are important too.

From a carer perspective, sometimes people just get burnt out and snap. I'm hoping it is just a temporary thing.

I try to be as independent as I can but there was a point, where I had to rely on others completely and it's horrible to me to rely on others or ask for help, because most are indifferent.

I kinda broke the rules as soon as I could and started taking care of myself but it's not always possible.

I was really weak and dizzy so is there anything that you're able to do, which might lift your spirits each day?

If not please do continue venting, there's a lot of wonderful Listeners about :)

User Profile: AngelFox2
AngelFox2 May 30th

I'm so sorry for you.

Would you mind if we become friends? :3

User Profile: Rhiannon65
Rhiannon65 June 11th

I hear you, understand you and feel your frustration. I sometimes think my family thinks I exaggerate my symptoms. It's very hard for me to ask for help. You are not alone. We are here for you! 💜🫶🤗

User Profile: CoffeeandCake
CoffeeandCake June 11th

Strong hug.