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User Profile: bestOrange1848
bestOrange1848 May 23rd, 2021

Hey :) My boyfriend and I are trying to lose weight. We both do sport and try to eat as healthy as possible. In the morning or evening I can hear him puke in the bathroom. I never asked him about it, because I think I may trigger him. I want to help him and support him but I don't know how and where to start. Do you have any advice? What helped you?

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User Profile: RarelyCharlie
RarelyCharlie May 23rd, 2021

@bestOrange1848 I suppose you're thinking about the possibility that he has bulimia. It's a serious disorder that requires professional help, starting with seeing a doctor.

I guess maybe you are the person who's in the best position to talk with him about it. If there's someone else in a better position, then maybe you can talk to that person and persuade them to talk to him.

Are you both trying to lose weight for medical reasons, and supervised by a doctor? If so, then the same doctor is the obvious person for him to approach.

If you'd ever like to chat about the situation, just click on my profile picture and message me.

Charlie