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Friend (accidentally?) triggered my ED

User Profile: raspberryberries09
raspberryberries09 April 1st, 2023

One of my friends has been ignoring me recently and when I finally got up the courage to ask about it, one of their two reasons was that I eat annoyingly and rudely. So much so that they left the lunch table I sit at without saying a word. It sent me spiraling and I haven't eaten much since she said so. Two of my other friends agree with her and left as well. I don't know what to do.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 April 4th, 2023

@raspberryberries09

did they tell you what they felt was annoying? or just basic things that were meant to hurt your feelings?

honestly if you are in school or whatever I would not put much into what the other 2 "friends" agreed to as most of early years people just agree with the crowd........

sounds like the first person knew they would trigger you and did for whatever reason.... most likely nothing to do with food or eating........
You have the power to not react and when you let yourself spiral you gave them power and they know the next time they could insult you and have the same reaction....