Maybe?

@highkeyholly I'm an "all or nothing" person too. I feel ya dude/dudette!

@highkeyholly I'm not a professional, so I can't answer whether or not something is an eating disorder, but I can say that if it's something that's negatively impacting you, it's something worth getting support with! You said sometimes you eat food/sweets without even realizing it. When you don't eat, is that also mindless/forgetting, or is it a deliberate choice? Depending which one, there might be different things that could help with both. Sending you good thoughts!

yea same like binging or starving