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Partners should be open with each other, as hiding things doesn't lead to good roads with someone you intend to build a life with. I think that as long as you didn't act unfaithfully while with your current partner, you have nothing to be ashamed or fearful of. Anyone who would judge you for your past actions before meeting them and not accept or take time to understand wouldn't be a healthy relationship anyways. If your actions did involve being unfaithful, I think it would be better than your partner learn about them earlier rather than later. Everyone deserves to have the truth to be able to make decisions for themselves- I believe most would feel the same way. What outcome are you looking for from this situation?