Hurt
My grandparents are not doing well. My grandmother is seeming to give up and it's taking a huge toll on my grandfather. I tried to help but my father does not want me around. I feel so guilty because my grandmother is crying out for my help but I don't know how more to help her. I can't even help myself 🤦🏿♀️
I'm sorry that your family is going through this. One of the toughest things a caregiver faces is accepting that all of your efforts, all of your sacrifices, all of your best laid plans, will not save that person. A caregiver can sometimes assist with providing a better quality of life, but eventually, the person will continue to decline and there's nothing the caregiver can do about that. It hurts. It feels unfair. You know that you'd fix it if you could. You've done what you can. Be gentle with yourself.
Thank you so much for those kind words!
@peachOak6858
I'm so sorry for your hurt. I'm praying for you and your family. Be strong.
