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User Profile: fearlessPlace1404
fearlessPlace1404 May 3rd, 2021

We have been together with my husband for 10 years. Lately we have had some arguments. The last one was

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User Profile: fearlessPlace1404
fearlessPlace1404 OP May 3rd, 2021

The last argument was bad, he said hurtful words, was aggressive in his communication repeating stop talking to me, in front of our two young kids. This was the first time that something like that happened in our home. Usually we keep peace. This situation happened yesterday, and he hasn’t taken any action to apologize. I felt overwhelmed, since I’m a stay at home mom, I started looking for a job. But I haven’t worked for 7 years. Even though I’m optimistic that I’ll find something. I felt trapped, I’m afraid that this situation could happen again, and he is not the type of person who su sorry or recognize a mistake if you don’t make him aware of that. I would love for him that we could talk and we could go for the marriage therapy together, even he could work that aggressive behavior. I felt pretty sad, and trapped

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User Profile: RescuePassion94
RescuePassion94 May 3rd, 2021

That is such a tough situation to be in 😔 but good for you wanting to go back to work! Don't let him tear you down. As a husband he should build you up and support you. Sadly men sometimes have an issue recognizing things. I hope you both can sit down and talk this out. If he cannot acknowledge and work through this, a break/separation to focus on self may help for you both to come back together. I hope this makes sense and can help you, even in a small way.

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