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Friendship Support Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 April 25th
...See more Welcome to the Friendship Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 9 August 2024 (updated by @tommy) @AnimalLover2006 @Bella20 @braveFig6308 @dapperLunch1747 @daydreammemories @Gettingbettertoday @HarmonyBlossom @LucyGray1799 @Ninahdy @OakSerenity @politePeach9642 @raspberry563 @reginalistener18 @spectacularApricot7089 @tidyCurrent1882 @tommy
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How to Make Friends After Bullying – Yep, It’s Possible! 🫶
by kabir22
Last post
 April 25th
...See more Hey lovely people! 🌟 Okay, let's be real for a second—making friends after being bullied can feel like climbing a mountain in flip-flops. 🩴 It’s tough, and sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever reach the top. But guess what? You can, and you will. I’ve got your back with some tips to help you navigate this journey. Let’s dive in, shall we? 1. Start with Self-Acceptance (You’re Amazing, Period) Easier said than done, right? But honestly, you’ve been through something tough, and you owe yourself a bit of love. Take a moment to look in the mirror and say, “I’m worth knowing. I’m worth loving.” Because you are. Spend time doing the things that make you feel you. Whether it’s reading, painting, or watching that same sitcom for the tenth time—do it unapologetically. 2. Find Your Tribe (Safe Spaces, Anyone?) I’m talking about those places where you walk in, and nobody expects you to be anything other than yourself. Maybe it’s a local book club, a hiking group, or an online community where you can geek out about your favorite show. Shared interests make it so much easier to start conversations without all that pressure of impressing someone. Trust me, finding your tribe makes all the difference. 3. Talk About the Little Things (Big Things Come Later) You don't have to start with a TED Talk about your life. Try simple stuff like, “Hey, do you like pineapple on pizza?” 🍍🍕(And if they say yes, well, you’ve just found someone with impeccable taste.) Building friendships can start with these small, light-hearted conversations. 4. Be Honest (But No Need to Spill the Beans Right Away) It’s okay to let people in, but only when you feel comfortable. You don’t owe anyone your whole story, but sharing bits and pieces when you’re ready can help build real connections. It’s like slowly peeling back layers of an onion… except without the tears (hopefully). 5. Set Boundaries Like a Boss 🛑 Listen, you’ve already been through enough. It’s perfectly fine to have boundaries and to stick to them. If you’re not comfortable talking about something, say so. Real friends will respect that, and if they don’t, well, they’re probably not worth the energy. You deserve people who make you feel safe and respected. 6. Explore the Digital Universe (Making Friends Has Never Been So Wi-Fi Friendly) 📱 Online communities can be a lifesaver when meeting people face-to-face feels like scaling Everest. Whether it’s joining a fandom, gaming group, or a forum for your favorite hobby, there’s a whole world out there ready to welcome you with open arms (or, you know, enthusiastic emojis 🤗). 7. Be Kind, Be Yourself, and Be a Little Weird (Seriously, It’s the Best Combo) The most beautiful friendships are built on authenticity. Don’t hide the parts of yourself that you think are “too much” or “too weird.” Love binge-watching cat videos at 2 a.m.? Great. Enjoy talking to your plants? Awesome. The right people will find your quirks endearing, I promise. 8. Remember That Not Everyone’s a Jerk (I Promise) It’s easy to put up walls when you’ve been hurt, but not everyone’s out to break them down. Some people genuinely want to know the real you. Give them a chance—but keep that protective armor handy, just in case. ⚔️ 9. Patience, Grasshopper 🐛 You’re not going to become best friends with someone overnight, and that’s completely okay. Relationships take time to build. Every time you put yourself out there, even if it’s just a little “hello,” you’re making progress. Celebrate those small wins—they matter more than you think. You’ve Got This! 🌈 You’re more than the stuff you’ve been through. You’re resilient, you’re strong, and there’s a world of potential friends out there just waiting to meet you. So take a deep breath, put on that brave face (even if it’s a little wobbly today), and remember—you’re not alone in this journey. We’ve got your back. 💪 Anyone else got tips, stories, or a good pineapple pizza debate to share? 🍍🍕 Let’s hear them! Your voice matters, and who knows, you might just find a friend right here. 💛 ------------------------- Tagging some so this can be used as reference whenever needed - @Hope @ASilentObserver @MelodyoftheOcean @Heartsandrosesandpaws @SparkyGizmo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @coolvibes @Boon4U
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Systemic Psychotherapy for Friendship Support
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 January 23rd, 2024
...See more Are you interested in improving your relationships, understanding yourself better, and developing new skills? If yes, you may be eligible to participate in our study. What is Systemic Therapy? Systemic therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on relationships between people and the patterns of interaction within the systems that impact the well-being of the individuals within the system. Healthy systems are encouraged by seeking balance within the system, as well as working on the roles and relationships involved. What is the Purpose of This Study? The purpose of this study is to explore how systemic psychotherapy-informed growth paths and listener training can help people to achieve personal growth and positive change. We want to understand how participating in the growth path or listener training can affect your relationships, thoughts, behaviour, and feelings, and how your past experiences influence your current patterns, behaviour, and relationships. What Are the Benefits of Participating? By participating in this study, you will: * Learn more about systemic therapy and how it can help you improve your relationships and well-being * Gain insights into your own patterns, behaviour, and feelings, and how they are influenced by your past and present experiences * Develop new skills and techniques * Contribute to research by answering questionnaires How Can You Sign Up? If you are interested in participating in this study, please read the full advertisement and sign-up form here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/ResearchParticipationOpportunitySystemicPsychotherapyinformedGrowthPathandListenerTraining_311588/]. We will contact you to confirm your eligibility and provide you with more information. Hurry up, as we have limited time available to participate in this research opportunity!
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Would like a Friend
by brights0l
Last post
 1 hour ago
...See more Hi there.  Read my rant down below if you like. I have never really had a friend, and don’t know how to be one. I’ve been very isolated from other people my age since I was homeschooled all my life. Now as an adult, I feel like I missed something most important. Everywhere around me I see people talking and interacting, friends and passerby, and each time I feel a stab inside. All my family have many friends, I’m the only one alone. It gets worst, I am a twin. Though most are fascinated about twins, how could they not, they don’t have a twin, I sometimes wish I never was a twin. We are always together, always interacting socially together. “So, which one are you?” “Where’s the other one?” “How are you guys?” These are a few common phrases I get when interacting with new people. Together we always get asked things as if we weren’t two completely, absolutely, separate people. This causes a hesitation, who should answer this time? This mades it hard to even try to talk to people when I even have the chance to. People can’t remember which name goes to what sister, so most of the time I don’t get called by my name, just as one of the twins. So because of this I finally decided to try to make a friend another way, online where you can’t see me. Can’t see a face and immediately think of my sister. Ok now that’s out, Somethings about me, I love creating things and art. I use pen and pencil, trying to do some more acrylic painting. I love dogs and animals, and nature, especially the trees and the ocean. Oh also I’m a 21F. People say I’m clever, kind and helpful. Even though I have no experience being a friend or chatting online, I hope someone will maybe enjoy my company. Thank you, -brightsol -------------------------
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Seeking support
by Doglover15
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Hi everyone- Is there anyone who is mid 20s and older who can chat about a few situations? I’m looking to see how others would approach certain situations. Is advice allowed, some I e said it wasn’t in the chat which to me defeats the whole purpose of support in the first place..
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i need queer friends
by lolorye89
Last post
 17 hours ago
...See more i’m fourteen, do you guys know of any local areas where queers gather? lol i know it sounds kinda weird but man straight people don’t get it. i love the friends i have but it’s not the same. my only two queer friends are my ex and my girlfriend, so not the best situation. i’m surrounded by people but i feel so lonely. my brothers gay, he’s also 21, he said the library but idk. thanks
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I desperately need a friend
by calmWriter6797
Last post
 17 hours ago
...See more I am 13, indian love listening music. Reading my favorite book is harry potter, doodling, listening, umm... somewhat studying.... If anybody interested please help yourself and me by making a friend...
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Who wants to be frnds??
by redOak4624
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Im 14 yrs old i like art, fashion, nd music. I watch anime, im indian but I dont look like i am for sum reson. I listen to odetari, sucidal idol, nd rebzyyxx, but I also listen to rap, pop nd aesthetic rap. Im looking for frnds who r around 14-16 who likes talking alottt
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Looking for a Genuine Friend 💙
by callmefahim59
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more Hi everyone! I'm 20 years old and looking for a serious, caring friend to talk to regularly. I struggle with anxiety and depression, and I believe having a supportive friend to talk to can make a big difference. Age doesn't matter to me — what matters is that you're genuine, patient, and kind. If you're going through something similar or just want to be there for someone, feel free to reach out. I'd love to have a real conversation and build a meaningful friendship. 🤝 Let's support each other! 💚
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Little things that matter
by Lovepeaceknowledge2025
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more What's one small thing a friend has done for you that you've never forgotten? It doesn't have to be something big—sometimes a simple message, a kind word, or someone just showing up can mean everything. I'd love to hear your story. 💙
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I find it hard to make friends
by Twizzly
Last post
 3 days ago
...See more I have the struggle to make friends since back then, online and in real life, and I mostly just blame myself for that because that is the main reason why I feel lonely, I wanted a friend to talk to whenever I'm feeling down, and whenever I talk to an online friend, I struggle to find which topics to talk about, and it kind of made me feel guilty because I might be boring to talk to, and I don't talk in groupchats often because I am anxious, but I want to have the courage to be talkative in groupchats.
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What Makes a True Friendship?
by Auralyn
Last post
 Tuesday
...See more Hi everyone! I'm Ali, 27 years old, and I'm new to 7 Cups. I'm excited to be part of this community and would love to connect with kind, supportive people. In your opinion, what is the most important quality in a true friendship? Is it honesty, loyalty, kindness, or something else? I'd love to hear your thoughts and experiences. 😊
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I need lezibian help now!!!
by agreeableSailboat9915
Last post
 Monday
...See more Please help me!! Is there a space on here for LGBTq+ if so help me get there please 🥺 🙏 🙏 
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Why is making friends so hard?
by calmShade3062
Last post
 Monday
...See more I just lost my best friend to some guy.. Anyways im struggling to make connections to find new friends. Its been tough. Ive tried going out and socialize. I tried just doing my hobbies and connect. But no real connection has been made.
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friends
by vexs2008
Last post
 Sunday
...See more heyy i’m 17 i always seem to lose friends and am looking to make some

Friendship Support

Welcome to Friendship Support! Friendship is a wonderful thing and here is a place you can celebrate it. Whether you want to share your successful friendships or discuss the relationships which aren’t going so well, this is the place for you. We are a relatively new community so please do not hesitate to reach out to a leader if you have any suggestions or feedback.


What are the different forum topics for Friendship Support?

Community Space: A place for introductions, icebreakers, games, community check-ins and discussions.

Friendship: A place for you to discuss all things related to friendships.


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You can help us by simply responding to threads and sharing your story (if you're comfortable). Check-in with us, join a discussion, or start one! Alternatively, you can join us as a Forum Leader. Check out this thread for more information.


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