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How to Make Friends After Bullying – Yep, It’s Possible! 🫶
by kabir22
Last post
 October 1st
...See more Hey lovely people! 🌟 Okay, let's be real for a second—making friends after being bullied can feel like climbing a mountain in flip-flops. 🩴 It’s tough, and sometimes you wonder if you’ll ever reach the top. But guess what? You can, and you will. I’ve got your back with some tips to help you navigate this journey. Let’s dive in, shall we? 1. Start with Self-Acceptance (You’re Amazing, Period) Easier said than done, right? But honestly, you’ve been through something tough, and you owe yourself a bit of love. Take a moment to look in the mirror and say, “I’m worth knowing. I’m worth loving.” Because you are. Spend time doing the things that make you feel you. Whether it’s reading, painting, or watching that same sitcom for the tenth time—do it unapologetically. 2. Find Your Tribe (Safe Spaces, Anyone?) I’m talking about those places where you walk in, and nobody expects you to be anything other than yourself. Maybe it’s a local book club, a hiking group, or an online community where you can geek out about your favorite show. Shared interests make it so much easier to start conversations without all that pressure of impressing someone. Trust me, finding your tribe makes all the difference. 3. Talk About the Little Things (Big Things Come Later) You don't have to start with a TED Talk about your life. Try simple stuff like, “Hey, do you like pineapple on pizza?” 🍍🍕(And if they say yes, well, you’ve just found someone with impeccable taste.) Building friendships can start with these small, light-hearted conversations. 4. Be Honest (But No Need to Spill the Beans Right Away) It’s okay to let people in, but only when you feel comfortable. You don’t owe anyone your whole story, but sharing bits and pieces when you’re ready can help build real connections. It’s like slowly peeling back layers of an onion… except without the tears (hopefully). 5. Set Boundaries Like a Boss 🛑 Listen, you’ve already been through enough. It’s perfectly fine to have boundaries and to stick to them. If you’re not comfortable talking about something, say so. Real friends will respect that, and if they don’t, well, they’re probably not worth the energy. You deserve people who make you feel safe and respected. 6. Explore the Digital Universe (Making Friends Has Never Been So Wi-Fi Friendly) 📱 Online communities can be a lifesaver when meeting people face-to-face feels like scaling Everest. Whether it’s joining a fandom, gaming group, or a forum for your favorite hobby, there’s a whole world out there ready to welcome you with open arms (or, you know, enthusiastic emojis 🤗). 7. Be Kind, Be Yourself, and Be a Little Weird (Seriously, It’s the Best Combo) The most beautiful friendships are built on authenticity. Don’t hide the parts of yourself that you think are “too much” or “too weird.” Love binge-watching cat videos at 2 a.m.? Great. Enjoy talking to your plants? Awesome. The right people will find your quirks endearing, I promise. 8. Remember That Not Everyone’s a Jerk (I Promise) It’s easy to put up walls when you’ve been hurt, but not everyone’s out to break them down. Some people genuinely want to know the real you. Give them a chance—but keep that protective armor handy, just in case. ⚔️ 9. Patience, Grasshopper 🐛 You’re not going to become best friends with someone overnight, and that’s completely okay. Relationships take time to build. Every time you put yourself out there, even if it’s just a little “hello,” you’re making progress. Celebrate those small wins—they matter more than you think. You’ve Got This! 🌈 You’re more than the stuff you’ve been through. You’re resilient, you’re strong, and there’s a world of potential friends out there just waiting to meet you. So take a deep breath, put on that brave face (even if it’s a little wobbly today), and remember—you’re not alone in this journey. We’ve got your back. 💪 Anyone else got tips, stories, or a good pineapple pizza debate to share? 🍍🍕 Let’s hear them! Your voice matters, and who knows, you might just find a friend right here. 💛 ------------------------- Tagging some so this can be used as reference whenever needed - @Hope @ASilentObserver @MelodyoftheOcean @Heartsandrosesandpaws @SparkyGizmo @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @coolvibes @Boon4U
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Systemic Psychotherapy for Friendship Support
by SoulfullyAButterfly
Last post
 September 1st
...See more Are you interested in improving your relationships, understanding yourself better, and developing new skills? If yes, you may be eligible to participate in our study. What is Systemic Therapy? Systemic therapy is a form of psychotherapy that focuses on relationships between people and the patterns of interaction within the systems that impact the well-being of the individuals within the system. Healthy systems are encouraged by seeking balance within the system, as well as working on the roles and relationships involved. What is the Purpose of This Study? The purpose of this study is to explore how systemic psychotherapy-informed growth paths and listener training can help people to achieve personal growth and positive change. We want to understand how participating in the growth path or listener training can affect your relationships, thoughts, behaviour, and feelings, and how your past experiences influence your current patterns, behaviour, and relationships. What Are the Benefits of Participating? By participating in this study, you will: * Learn more about systemic therapy and how it can help you improve your relationships and well-being * Gain insights into your own patterns, behaviour, and feelings, and how they are influenced by your past and present experiences * Develop new skills and techniques * Contribute to research by answering questionnaires How Can You Sign Up? If you are interested in participating in this study, please read the full advertisement and sign-up form here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/siteupdates/SoulfullyAButterflysContentGarden_2136/ResearchParticipationOpportunitySystemicPsychotherapyinformedGrowthPathandListenerTraining_311588/]. We will contact you to confirm your eligibility and provide you with more information. Hurry up, as we have limited time available to participate in this research opportunity!
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Friendship Support Automated Taglist!
by tommy
Last post
 August 1st
...See more Welcome to the Friendship Support Taglist This thread is an auto-updating list. The list is regularly updated by forum leaders and can be found below. Having issues? Reply below and someone will help you! Why should I join the taglist? ✔ Never miss out on sub-community check-ins, discussions or events ✔ Get tagged and notified by community leaders whenever a new relevant thread has been posted ✔ Become a more active member of the community. What do I need to do? ✅ To add yourself to this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please add me. ❌ To remove yourself from this taglist, press the Post to Thread button below and write the exact words Please remove me. ------------------------- Current taglist as of 9 August 2024 (updated by @tommy) @AnimalLover2006 @Bella20 @braveFig6308 @dapperLunch1747 @daydreammemories @Gettingbettertoday @HarmonyBlossom @LucyGray1799 @Ninahdy @OakSerenity @politePeach9642 @raspberry563 @reginalistener18 @spectacularApricot7089 @tidyCurrent1882 @tommy
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Friend search
by secretFig2642
Last post
 36 minutes ago
...See more Hi y'all am Faith I'm 16 yrs old currently in highschool graduating next year. I will love to make new friends and I have too many issues and need someone to who can advise me privately and a friend. I love music and love to sing too
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Anyone from Sydney / Aus here
by proactiveFriend
Last post
 5 hours ago
...See more I am looking for some friendship and I prefer people in this side of a planet as time differences is too much with others.
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Friends?
by 4var1KJ
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Hi, I’m Avari and I’m from the U.S. I’m a 15 year old female looking for friends. I recently went homeschooled (or doing schooling online) and I didn’t really have friends to begin with when I was doing school in an actual school building. I have really bad anxiety since I was younger and I got diagnosed with depression about 2 years ago. Just looking for anyone for me to lean on during hard times (or just to talk abt random things).
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Hey wanna be friends 😄
by discreetPenny5408
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Hey, Olie here, I'm new to this platform and I'm looking to make some friends, I'm a book lover, animal lover, food lover, basically anything interesting or delicious I'm there, what about you?
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New friends?!
by Kassy1910
Last post
 6 hours ago
...See more Heyy I'm kassy, I'm 16 from NY I live yapping and singing I do cheer and musicals. I have 3 pets, I've always wanted a horse bc I love riding, I have 5 siblings and I just started this app but am loving it!
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Advice sos
by placidLunch923
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hey, this is my first time making a post so ignore if I sound odd lol. I'm 17 yrs old f. I hate how alone I've been in my senior year of highschool, everything so dull and I can't do any of the big friend group trend all my classmates are doing because my 'friend' group is full of fake people who ignore me and talk crap. I'm sick of being disrespected and mistreated so I want to make friends that make me forget what the term mistreatment means, I want to stop having trust issues because of my past BFFs and current friends. I want to change for the better for myself and for whoever will enter my life. I have an issue of others not wanting to try and get close to me due it my initial personality because I'm guarding myself (considering past issues). I have one bff that I trust and love but my other friends I legit just lost in the past two years and they completely destroyed my trust and my current friends stepped over my boundaries so much that I've become surrounded by these walls to protect myself from anyone, even my bff or family who try to help. I'm trying to put these walls down by reaching out to others and befriending them so I guess this is my attempt at that. I could say so much more but I'd rather not yap so much 😭. If anyone has advice at trusting others more and also cutting off my whole friend group without causing stupid drama, I'd appreciate it.
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Looking for some friends
by Deboreledas0513
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hi Everyone! I'm a 25 years old woman, and I have no friends to talk. I want a friend, or friends to have deep conversations, to blurt out, or to just yap with hahaha. Btw, english is not my First language. So, If anyone wants to make friends with me, let's chat!🩷
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Seeking friendship and support
by annacat7991
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hey! I’m a 29 year old female. I’m looking to make friends. My relationship of 3 years is over. I lost my job. And had to move back in with family. I’m feeling really lost and depressed about having to start life over. I would love to find people who motivate, encourage, and hold each other accountable.
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hello.
by greenMaple8058
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more I don't know why i feel sleepy after getting enough sleep and i woke up in the morning feeling slow. I am twenty five years old.a female.i need a friend whom i can share my stories.
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Looking for real friends!
by guler15
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hello! I am Zahra from Brunei. I am 16 and currently a highschooler, about to graduate next month. Currently, I have no friends due to my past. Fake friends and fake rumours about me that cause all my friends to isolated themselves from me. But I promise I am not what they think I am. I am just lonely, lost and wanted to experience real friends once to laugh and enjoy with :). I am not that pretty or skinny but I will try to be as entertaining as I could! I love games, anime, football and many more.
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Friends
by kattykits21
Last post
 1 day ago
...See more Hi I am from India I need a genuine friend with whom I can share my feelings and emotions.
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Friendship
by amusingTurtle5761
Last post
 2 days ago
...See more I kinda don't have a lot of friends...

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