An option
So basically I have always felt like an option in everyone's life. In middle school, even the friends that I made, I was never a priority for any of my friends. People probably consider me to be very boring since I don't have much to talk about. Also for Around 15 years , I have lived with my cxn. She is exactly my age and she is more confident and prettier. And every relative of mine as well as hers just liked her more. I have always compared myself to her and I feel like everyone likes her more. I am probably jealous but I am tired of being an option for everyone and I am tired of people treating me like an option.
@funnyWheel3084 Hello, I'm sorry to hear you've been feeling this way for a long time. It's essential to recognize your own worth without comparing yourself to others. I know it can be hard but try to focus on your own personal growth rather than measuring yourself against others. Additionally, engage in activities that bring you fulfillment and surround yourself with those who are supportive or uplifting individuals, or bond with others who have similar interests to you. Don't be too hard on yourself, there are so many people out there who can appreciate you for who you are.