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Backup friend?

User Profile: ShayWaddell08
ShayWaddell08 October 16th, 2025

I kinda just feel like a backup friend, my closest friend from 2nd grade imma call her raspberry has been replacing me for months with this girl her age we’re gonna call orange, they are sophomores and I’m a junior in high school. They hangout and if orange can’t hangout raspberry goes to me asking to hangout, every hangout it’s cause orange can’t go. But I’m always there for her, for her concerts and if she needs someone, I’m more mature yk. She doesn’t like going to orange for stuff cause she doesn’t take things seriously. But idk I’m just feeling like she’s using me mentally? Idk. Alots going on rn and she wants to hangout to go to this haunted house this weekend and idk if I really wanna go be a backup. She’s turning preppy and acting like orange and even is looking like her, got a nose piercing like her, dyed her hair and cut it just like hers and dresses sort of like her and does makeup exactly like hers. Orange is city preppy kid, raspberry is a country idek how to explain it, they wernt alike. Maybe in paranoid or going crazy or overreacting.

Thanks for listening hope it wasn’t confusing.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 17th, 2025

@ShayWaddell08

Nice to meet you 🥰

You deserve the same energy back that you put into the friendship.

You deserve to be happy and included also, not to ever be an after thought.

Be honest and never let someone make you feel unwanted 💜💕

User Profile: pioneeringFig9851
pioneeringFig9851 October 17th, 2025

@ShayWaddell08i understand exactly what your saying, its so hard when friends who you'd do anything for you treats you like that.its not you its her. you truly deserve a friend like your self. so if the friendship is hurting you you need to communicate it. ust tell her how you feel but dont settle down if she dinies it.

User Profile: yogifzr
yogifzr October 19th, 2025

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