Feel so alone
I’m an almost 30 year old woman with a two year old. His dad recently abandoned us about a week ago. So the loneliness has hit me harder. The friends I do have aren’t dependable or don’t give the same energy I give to them. I don’t have any real genuine friends that’s why I’ve recently just started keeping to myself. I put myself out there all the time and it doesn’t help. I’ve already tried putting myself out there or joining apps like peanut to make friends but it’s just been impossible to actually form a connection. It seems like everybody already has their friend group at my age. I’m just going through an incredibly difficult life change at this point and not having any support makes it so much harder
@proactiveWheel7710, I know I'm only a teen, and I can't fully understand everything you're going through, but I know for a fact what you're going through is tough. Even though I'm younger, I can still tell how much strength it takes to do what you're doing. Raising a child, finding support, and getting through each day after someone you trusted walked away are all really difficult things. Nobody should go through something like that alone.
It really does suck when you're giving your energy to people and they don't give it back. And I know what it's like to feel like everyone has their own friends. It's really frustrating, especially when you're trying so hard to connect. But I want to say one thing, this doesn't mean anything is wrong with you. You have much to offer, and the right people will see it.
My oldest sister has experienced almost the exact same thing. My mother and the dad of her daughter abandoned her in a world where she had no help, but I at least want to be there for someone, since I couldn't be there for my sister at the time.
Even if I can’t fix everything, I’m here to listen if you ever need someone to talk to. I care about you, and I’m not just saying that in a superficial way. You’re not invisible, and you’re definitely not alone.
@proactiveWheel7710
Hi, I hope you have found some people to talk to on here.
Hi. Im much older than you and ive been through a lot. Having someone to talk to about your situation will help a lot. The listener may not be able to physically help you but knowing someone is out there to listen helps.
Me too and I feel so alone and I'm going through a break up and I have no want to vent to
Me too and I feel so alone and I'm going through a break up and I have no want to vent to
I totally understand the loneliness.. As I have been lonely fr like 2 yes now... I have no frnds and I don't have good connection with my parents.... I'm 18 ... But I still have no frnds... Everyone I encounter wants to put me down and never actually seems to like me in person... Idk but yeah u r not alone... I feel people are born lucky to have good trusted frnds..... 🙂🙂
