Finding genuine friends.
Hello people. I am 29 years old. Through all these years, i came across so many people in school, college, work. Made a lot of friends. As a child i was introvert but later on built confidence and now i can freely talk to anyone and get comfortable.
Just one thing though, all these people, i mean friends as i speak of, are there because they need something. I am not saying they are mean. They are good people. But as i grew up, all these friendships became more materialistic than actual care and concern.
I was still managing it because i found that care and concern through my girlfriend. But recently, we broke up, kind of complicated. We might be back in future, not sure.
So, while going through this toigh time, i looked around to find a person who actually cared. I didnt found even one.
Hundreds of contacts in my phone, big social circle and everything. But when i see through it, it is all a show off.
Maybe i still have to find a better circle of people. Let's see.
I came across this app. No offence but i dont know if writing this post will help.
Thanks for reading.
@brightMaple3024 Hello, I am sorry about what you are going through. It is very nice that you joined this place. What kind of hobbies do you enjoy doing? For example, drawing, writing, going for walks, taking pictures, ect and look for those groups that are near you and join them and talk to the other people. Then ask if they would like to get together with you for coffee or lunch and talk. Hope you will be okay soon. 😊