Forgiveness

@amiableSea9799

Sometimes we are the hardest on ourselves.

And we punish ourselves.

We can see it within ourselves to be kind, and compassionate and forgive others, but you also deserve the same graces 💛

It can seem it. I felt like there were 2 reasons for me, 1 high unrealistic expectations from others and the more I failed, the more critical I became.

Secondly maybe at first it was comparing myself to others and thinking, I should be further along, not way behind..

Now I just go at my own pace, things get done, but just slower and afterwards I say good job, instead of dwelling on the negative.

When something goes wrong or is incomplete, instead of saying, Ugh hopeless. I say, hmm, I'm feeling disappointed. I was really working hard but maybe it needs to be done in a different way to achieve my goal.