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Friendship dynamic

I have a bestfriend and another friend with whom I share a few hobbies is it wrong of me to talk about our hobbies i don't share with my bestfriend, it isn't like we rarely meet we meet every day at school and at school itself i talk to that other friend, but then my bestfriend got really upset and fought with me about it

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain June 25th

Friendships are totally unpredictable, maybe your bestie feels a lil insecure about losing your friendship? It's not wrong to share.

You have options, either you can introduce the other friend to your bestie so you can all bond together..

Or you can make your bestie reassured you're not going anyway, plan and make a fun outing for the two of you.

You can say, you wasn't trying to exclude her, you were just exploring your hobbies but together you'll discover interesting adventures :)

User Profile: dapperHouse4710
dapperHouse4710 June 26th

@limegreenBlackberry1340  were you only venting, or did you want feedback?

If the latter:

Unfortunately, sometimes without even being fully aware that they are doing it, someone will pick a fight over something trivial.....just to find out how much you care.

Unfortunately, some persons lack talent, ambition and ability.  They turn to emotional manipulation of others to build their self esteem rather than tangible achievements.  They assemble an imaginary hierarchy, a network of people, a house of cards based on petty emotions. 

Fortunately, you can choose to remove people like this from your life and instead make friends who are sane and rational.