Friends without judgements and actually in need
Looking for a true friends who would lend ears without Judgement and actually support when we are in need.
@limegreenJar8358
Here we go, man...
That’s brave!
@limegreenJar8358
Hm? No, not at all :)
Life takes 360 degree change once marriage happens in orthodox country!
@limegreenJar8358
Can you namr it? If not, tell me about it, please
@RedOceanSun
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I changed my place and career
Naturally, I atmosphere changed and what my husband was during courtship turned out is actually emotionally unavailable.
@limegreenJar8358
What courtship?
Yes! Now I’ve made my entire emotion stream as per this and I want to gain courage and wisdom to stop doing things for him because I’m not going to receive anything back. I don’t have friends around me and it’s mostly work and his family. I want to balance my life aside along with work and stop focusing so much on this.
@limegreenJar8358
So, are you still married?
Yes and I pretty much feel lonely in it. I miss my past work, life, friends and family.
@limegreenJar8358
So why did you mention your country? Do you live in the orthodox society? Strict rules? Sexist views?
Yes I do
Hence, I chose a platform this to express my emotions and not to my friends and family. People know each other and confuse society values with what’s right or wrong.
@limegreenJar8358
So, do you you think you are not like them? Are you like more progressive, more modern? What are you views? What's the difference between you circle? you society and you? It's interesting.
I don’t present myself to be non-orthodox. I present what I am. They feel the need to be presented modern but internally it’s a scam!
@limegreenJar8358 Why is it a scam?
Could you not just get into therapy?if financially ok that is