Having trouble making female friends
So i’m a female 24
I feel i’ve had trouble keeping female friends or had trouble with females liking me
i don’t know why
but it seems i’m not just likes
i’m a shy person and i’m very intentional of who i want to surround myself with
ive had a couple of friend betrayals and i’m not saying i’m perfect but i’m not exactly very trusting of people
but i’m open to be friends with people if they match my vibe which i difficult to find cause i am shy
but what i don’t get is why some girls just tend to not like me for no reason
@kelseyky
Hey! It can be difficult when we feel like we're not connecting with others. I ensure you the 7 cups community is here for you.
I try to remind myself, as a hopelessly shy, people pleaser, that other people's perspectives of me are mirrors of the perspectives they have for themselves. if other girls seem to not be liking "you", it may be something they're insecure about within themselves. You sound kind, funny, vibrant, and wonderfully authentic. These are fantastic qualities! It might be the people in your environment who are lacking~
Best of luck on your journey searching for more like minded people on the same vibrations as you <3