Help me pls :(
Okay so basically I'm an introverted person wirh anxiety problems, I also have a hard time talking to ppl and allat
And I have classmates that are pretty funny and cheerful, and they're obv better at social than me. Because of that, apparently my brain sees them as "better" than me so I cant help but try to be extremely nice to them so they wouldn't hate me (I've gone through bullying before and I do NOT wanna go back to that era..) and yeah as you guys can tell it made them feel less comfy around me and they probs felt like I was "trying too hard" and that "I was being a hypocrite" which I kinda where they're coming from I guess and so I've unfortunately heard some stuff about myself. I wonder if the reason they don't like me is because they believe to the rumors or if there was something entirely different i was doing, but normally if I knew someone was evil I wouldn't care if rhey hated me or not. I know these people are actually very kind to others. I just want to know what makes them dislike me so much.
Hi @furinaaa.
The only way to know is to talk to them..
Just because your not popular doesn't mean you are a lesser person or not good enough..
For better understanding in life you will have to socialize more and focus on self discovery.
Take care🌟
Good idea, I actually tried talking to them but even though how many times I tried, I just kept crying the moment I tried to talk about it. And they say that everything's alright, but I just feel like it's not. You know how sometimes you feel like someone's being very awkward and you don't like them but you have to be kind to them cause they did nothing wrong? Yeah I think that's what they're thinking about me
