How do you actually get in the friend zone? 🤣

Sounds weird!

But what I mean is.. I don't get how some girls talk for a few mins and basically find loads in common or just know how to connect with one another. They suddenly make plans together.

I have a few people I see often that we have a nice chat together but I'm so awkward and anxious that I tend to just not know how to move the conversation along in a interesting way.. I've been told ask questions but I feel like I ask dumb stuff so everyone just thinks I'm an idiot

Other people seem to like swap social media or numbers and I've known and seen some of these people for 3 years and yet I don't like meet up with them for coffee or anything plus I'm always low on money so most of the people I talk to often have jobs and I'm just at home with my kids..

I don't know what I'm trying to ask.. I'm scared to make any friends anyway because I'm crap at keeping them and I don't want anyone to end up hating me because I'm crap at texting back or to anxious to meet up last min

Its so hard but I miss having that friend to just laugh with.. I miss laughing