I am very conflicted
Hello, I am in a relationship, and me and my boyfriend want to have a travel for NYE. But we often organize travels togehter with my two lesbian friends that are in a couple. I want to have this travel just with my boy, on our own, but i am surely convinced that my 2 Friends may get angry for "not be informed" about this trip, since they probably wanted to join us ( they are forced to travel by group, because if they departure alone their lesbian relationship would be revelead). This situation make me feel anxious about breaking the relationship with them or to be in conflict with them but on the other side I am aware that Is my right to have a solitary journey with my guy and that of my two friends reallt wanted to have any travel they could be propositive at first (dont need to wait I create and occasion for them)
@cirotto333
You are right, you have the right to travel alone and you are not obliged to be a "cover" for them. They will not travel with you for the rest of their lives, right? So the best option is to tell them about it as correctly as possible, but honestly and directly. You and your boyfriend have every right to do this and even a friendly debt does not oblige you. So I hope you will make the right decision and everything will work out for you!