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I feel like I’m bad at making friends

User Profile: generousMango1015
generousMango1015 February 28th, 2025

No matter how hard I try I just can’t seem to make any new friends in my area. I was meant to go out tonight with people I know and they bailed on me last minute and it made me realise how lonely I actually am in my town. 😔😔

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora March 1st, 2025

@generousMango1015 That's such a terrible thing to do, I'm so sorry that happened to you<3 

I'd like to say that it's not you, it's them. Maybe when we're out looking for friends the not suitable ones get filtered out first, you're just filtering out the ones that are not worth the time and effort. I'm sure soon you'll find your bunch and they'll be just the right match in all their mismatched ways.

I'm sending you this pocket penguin :)

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User Profile: generousMango1015
generousMango1015 OP March 1st, 2025

Thank you for your reply 💕 I hope so I really find it hard to meet new people and create those friendships and bonds. Thank you for the pocket hug 🤗

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User Profile: BlueDarkAurora
BlueDarkAurora March 2nd, 2025

@generousMango1015 You're part of the cups family:) You have us all here <3 

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User Profile: generousMango1015
generousMango1015 OP March 5th, 2025

Awh thank you i appreciate it 💕

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User Profile: Embolton0620
Embolton0620 March 1st, 2025

Same! Thought i had a group of friends but seems to have crumbled. 😔

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User Profile: generousMango1015
generousMango1015 OP March 1st, 2025

I’m sorry that has happened to you I really do understand how it feels

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User Profile: RainbowRosie
RainbowRosie March 3rd, 2025

Hi there. So sorry to hear this and how disappointed you must feel. Sending a ((hug))) for you..and anyone else that this has happened too 🌹


I hope in time you make new friends who deserve your friendship.


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User Profile: generousMango1015
generousMango1015 OP March 5th, 2025

Thank you! Sending hugs back /(•.•)\

its hard even trying to make new friendships I just don’t know what to talk about anymore.

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User Profile: BeeZeeOtter
BeeZeeOtter March 4th, 2025

How rude of them; they have problems, not you. I could relate to you. I did not move to another city. My friends did. As I get older, i notice it’s hard to make new friends. My circle is coworkers, not really a social circle. Most of my friends from the past have moved to different cities, far away from me. I sometimes feel lonely. They have kids and their own families; I don’t. I’m procrastinating but I want to, I will sign up for a ballroom dancing class by end of summer just to get out, hopefully would make new friends.

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User Profile: generousMango1015
generousMango1015 OP March 5th, 2025

Completely understand how that would make you feel lonely sometimes. And maybe joining a new class will spark up new friendships 😊 good luck!!

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