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User Profile: aquaMelon6944
aquaMelon6944 December 25th, 2024

I'm sorry if I take a bit of your time but I really need your help, I will try to be as precise as possible, and please pardon my English since it's not my first language🙇


It all started a couple of months ago, I was starting a project, it is sort of related to medical education, and then one of my friends knew about it and offered to hop in the boat and be a partner in this journey.

And of course I said yes, she is smart, she knows ppl, she is a better leader than me, and I was sure that together we can make this project a success.


We thought we would start with an *** page, we figured the theme we will work with, but we were faced with the first problem; gathering the team..., I know that we can't do everything like editing, shooting and all that stuff on our own but I don't know anyone who can help us, and I felt like she assigned me with gathering ppl but I have no response for her.

The other problem came when the summer break was done and I see her daily in college and don't know how to act, we aren't really friends, we just know each other, should I just say hi and go on? How will this be everyday, just someone you know pass by you saying hi?

So I didn't (say hi)...

And now it's been 2 months since we last had a normal conversation, she sent me a message saying we are having a communication problem and I said ok, tell me how you see it from your pov and how can we solve it, then she didn't reply back (it's a kind of a habit she has, but I don't know if she is just ignoring or angry with what I wrote or ignoring everybody)

And now I don't know what to do, we kindda avoid looking into each other eyes anymore, as if we are on a break up or smth, but I can see her sometimes looking at me as if she is waiting for me to say something and I don't know what to say or how to get back to even talking again.


I'm afraid she thinks of me as a creep or if she is angry with something I did (but I don't know what it is), or if she feels that she is trapped with me in this.



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User Profile: aquaMelon6944
aquaMelon6944 OP December 25th, 2024

P.s: if this might help, I think we are from totally different backgrounds, she just doesn't know it, ppl who aren't too close to me like her always think I'm mysterious because they don't know anything that matters about me, I'm from a hardworking family, a family that literally worked through stones and bled sweat to be able to live a basic human life, I'm in college because of a scholarship (without it I could never enter college), on the other hand she is from a nearly wealthy family ( I'm not saying her life was easy or assuming anything about her) it's just, I don't know, maybe this is why we can't blend in together..

User Profile: gloriousPrincess7692
gloriousPrincess7692 December 27th, 2024

Well if you think she is a good friend, rather than losing a good friend try talking to her face to face . Like after trying all the possible ways to connect with her and she not agreeing with you its bettee to not associate with that person. Well i appreciate you for trying to save this friendship .

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