Mixed signals from "BFF"
My friend is acting so different. She used to be so nice in year 7-11, and now in year 12? She's a totally different person. Cold, rude, blunt, lectures you like a teacher, esp everytime u see her in person. Recently, I made her a heartfelt card and she all of a sudden acted as my "bff" online on and off ever since, however, still continuously ghosts my messages online. I graduate soon, in 3 days, so how do I get rid of this grieve? I keep crying every night of who she was, and how I had such high hopes she'd be different after I gave her a card/gifts, but turns out I shouldve never given it. It only give temporary online joy, none in person, still acting like her same old self.
It's a tough situation you are facing. People and friendships change and not always for the better.
You care and were vulnerable enough to put yourself out there. At least you tried, maybe your friend is going through something but instead of explaining she chooses to retreat.
I can only say that I hope in the future someone appreciates your care and efforts :)
I really understand what you are feeling.. this kind of behaviour from someone close make you feel sad, frustrated and even confused at a same time, humans have it in their nature and are tend to change but that doesn't mean you have to hold on to the change.. sometimes it better to let go... You said you are gonna graduate soon, take this as a start of a new journey where you does not only start a new chapter but let go of past situations and relationships where you are not feeling worthy. Remember, it's okay to have emotions to cry it out but don't hold onto things that hurt you because when you understand your worth no one would take you for granted and even if they do then you know how to let go of them
Hope you find new friends who prioritise you and don't make you feel this *** again🤍
