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User Profile: Adam237
Adam237 May 18th, 2025

I have been having problems to keep any relationship with any person for more than a year . I am not good with people and I never try and whenever any body gets close to my they leave for a silly reason and sometimes or probably the most of the time they leave without any explanation and when someone get close to me and find out who I really am they leave . I have just lost 2 persons a couple of days ago . I am.not feeling sad about them because I have got used to it

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 May 20th, 2025

@Adam237

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User Profile: CherishedDreamer
CherishedDreamer May 21st, 2025

Sorry for your loss Adam, I can relate. I lost some really dear friends in my youth and that has influenced me in my friendships and confidence building connections. In my past I felt like I cannot get through to these people that mattered to me and like they don't want to listen, so I resorted to anger and cutting them out of my life, followed by guilt for my anger, I started being overly agreeable in other friendships, which led again to not being seen because I was inauthentic. I am an adult but I have no idea how to find and connect people our age. It's not easy. What have you tried so far to do Adam?

User Profile: CherishedDreamer
CherishedDreamer May 21st, 2025

Sorry for your loss Adam, I can relate. I lost some really dear friends in my youth and that has influenced me in my friendships and confidence building connections. In my past I felt like I cannot get through to these people that mattered to me and like they don't want to listen, so I resorted to anger and cutting them out of my life, followed by guilt for my anger, I started being overly agreeable in other friendships, which led again to not being seen because I was inauthentic. I am an adult but I have no idea how to find and connect people our age. It's not easy. What have you tried so far to do Adam?