The way my bestfriend is acting is hurting me
i have been friends with my bestfriend for over 8 years now. we have really built quite the friendship. one you would say is for the books. but recently, within the last few weeks, or even months, i have noticed that she has been picking on me. and it just hurts because i know she would never do something like that and it feels so wrong to think of her that way, but im really hurt as well by how she is treating me. and i have noticed it because she's treating me differently from our other friends in our circle. somehow, she is "meaner" towards me. i even heard her murmur once that i was "ugly" but she doesnt know i heard that. it feels like she doesnt want to be around me or that she is disgusted by me or weirded out. it just hurts so much thinking that we were such good friends and now it feels like she's faking everything.
@mwlryuu
Heyy...
I'm sorry you've gotta go through this, 8 years is so so long. Me and my bestie got crazy close in just a few weeks, but you both have had 8 years, i cant imagine how much you both mean to each other. And you should know there could be a lot of possibilities and reasons for her behavior. Maybe you unknowingly did something which she's mad about, maybe she's going through something and is just finding it hard to be her old self.
There is always a reason, so you've gotta find that out. It may hurt, but you should talk about it with her, what better way to sort things out? Find out the reason and help her out and clear things up. I'm sure you've got this, your incredible bond of 8 years cant be broken just like that in a few weeks.
All the best! Be sure to patch things up kay? Cyaaa
Just randome thihghts that come to mind:
Maybe you could call and set up a time to talk. Then let her know you notice a change in the tone of the relationship. Tell her how important her friendship has been and still is to you. Maybe than ask her if there anything you need to know or discuss.