Why Do I Always Disappear?
Hey!! I’m new here, 18 years old.
I’ve noticed a pattern in myself.. I really enjoy meeting new people, but once a connection starts to form, I begin to feel strange… uncomfortable in a way I can’t explain. And then I just end up ghosting them. Every single time.
I’m honestly tired of this cycle. I don’t have any friends irl so I’ve tried making online ones but because of this habit, I always end up alone again.
I just want to connect with people who might understand or relate to this.
@Aurorahere
You don't feel worthy so you ghost them, it's a fear, you get in there, before they end it with you.
It's important that you know, you deserve friendships to.
You have plenty to offer.
I would encourage you to try and meet people here and keep the chats light until you build up your confidence because ghosting can have a really negative effect on people 💜💕
I do that sometimes.. but I have come to realize I always walk away from connections that feels off. Maybe its your intuition. If you would have felt 100% safe You might not have felt the need to leave.
