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any advice on this friend?

User Profile: whitesugarr
whitesugarr November 17th, 2025

i have this friend who i lowk hate and i dont wnn hang out w her, but shes lowk my only friend, and she apologized for wht she did (i stopped being friends w her for a while) and like sh introduces me to ppl and new stuff since i did move here this year. And i lowk am struggling rlly bad so i feel better when i hang out w like literally anyone js to keep my mind off of stuff while i sort this out IF i sort this out. But i dont wnn be friends w her i dont fuxking like her, shes not my vibe broooo

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 17th, 2025

@whitesugarr

If she's not your vibe, it's not fair on you or her to continue the friendship.

She would only feel used and we are all different.

Let her be around people who appreciate her.

And it's hard, but you need to try and find some friends of similar interests, good luck 🥰

User Profile: MariX148
MariX148 November 17th, 2025

@whitesugarr

I have gone through a similar situation , and it did end up on me being alone ,  but personally i would say , friendships and relationships don't have to be perfect all the time but  friends aren't supposed to make you feel this way , they're not supposed to be forced , that's the difference of having someone as a friend rather than just someone you know . even if she apologized but you still don't want to hang out with her, just retreat back  , you don't have to make it into a fight and hurt her feelings , everyone are just doing their thing , we all make mistakes and no one's perfect  , and best of luck <3 .