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I'm surrounded by people that are supposed to be my friends but I feel like I'm invisible. No one makes me a priority or the person they want to hangout with, everytime I talk I get ignored for louder and more liked people and I just want to shut down. I'm trying to cope with being alone but it's hard when the people I've been friends with for years just start ignoring my presence.
@Vipheart hey, um, have you tried expressing those feelings to your friends? It most surely is difficult, but I believe if you guys talk it will get at least a little better. It will take a lot of courage to do so but I think telling them how you feel, even if it won't work out as you imagined, will make you feel a little better.
I hope you are doing better right now and send you a hugg
@annarig21 yeah I have on several occasions, I put in all my effort but they give next to nothing back, I have a couple who do but they aren't in that main group of friends
@Vipheart then maybe talking more with the ones that listened to you and gave you back smth is the best solution. Don't try to keep someone in your life if they do not want to. Firstly, their loss and secondly it may be hard letting go of someone you love but it is much better than a one sided friendship
You don't want to be friends with people that don't care enough about you. Friendship isn't only hanging out its supporting one another. If you had a big problem in your life will those friends help you ?
