i need help w this
I have a friend. We’ve been very close for three years — best friends, actually. However, one day, they gradually started distancing themselves from me. They said that we were no longer compatible. I’m fairly okay with that. I understand that not every relationship lasts forever.
But the problem is that even after explaining the reason to me, they still keep avoiding and acting cold toward me. I once promised them that we would talk about this again later. And now… more than a month has passed.
Should I text them and share my thoughts, as well as ask them to maintain a civil relationship with me instead of avoiding each other?
@turquoiseSouth6351
Friendships do grow apart , that's true but not all and not best friends.
It's very weird the way that your friend became so cold so quick and just expects nothing.
I wouldn't reach out, you deserve better than someone dropping you without explanation 💙
@turquoiseSouth6351 It’s understandable that their coldness is hurting you more than the friendship ending itself. After being close for three years, sudden distance can feel confusing and unresolved.
I think it’s okay to send one calm, honest message — not to force the friendship back, but to express your feelings and ask for basic respect and clarity. Something simple like wanting to avoid awkwardness or maintain a civil relationship is completely reasonable.
At the same time, try to prepare yourself for the possibility that they may still choose distance. Their response will tell you a lot about where they are emotionally. Sometimes closure comes from expressing yourself respectfully, even if the other person doesn’t fully meet you halfway.
Was it a civil relationship?
Don't beg for him to come back it never works and even if he does come back begging he will always treat you like door mate . Take a break from this don't think about it go on a holiday enjoy your life for a week and when ur mind is calm then decides . Anyways I bring so happy will ultimately draw him back with curiosity then u can talk .
Was it a civil relationship?
Don't beg for him to come back it never works and even if he does come back begging he will always treat you like door mate . Take a break from this don't think about it go on a holiday enjoy your life for a week and when ur mind is calm then decides . Anyways I bring so happy will ultimately draw him back with curiosity then u can talk .
