jealousy??
Hey im new here and i just wanted to share one recent issue that came up between me and a friend. Well im the only one having an issue with it because she hasn’t known. So, she asked me to follow some people on *** for her so she would be able to grow her circle. But the person i followed, i knew them aswell because we are school mates. Fast forward i noticed that they didnt talk as much since then. But then, we were like doing some code names stuff related to him. And then somehow Sunday ive noticed that they’ve gotten close. Even tonight they said they got ‘married’ and i was shcied because the guy has a gf. but i didnt say anything. But now i feel jealous. idk why but im not forcing myself in a friendship with someone else just to do what she did to me but at the same time. Shes a person i always talk to and knowing that now, we both have her attention shes gonna give her undivided attention to one more than the other and at the moment hes getting it.
I also want to get some new friends not to be revenging or anything . but someone else who may share similar thoughts, goals etc.
Please respond to share your views and what i should do.. thank you👍🏽.
theyre not married like legally btw
Hey @Niyah2xc
Welcome! Thanks for sharing what's been on your mind. It sounds like you're in a tough spot with your friend, and I can understand why you're feeling a bit conflicted. It's never easy when friendships start to shift, especially when it feels like someone else is getting the attention you used to have.
It's okay to feel the way you do—jealousy is a natural emotion, especially when it comes to people we care about. It might be helpful to have an open conversation with your friend about how you're feeling, but also remember that it's important to focus on your own happiness too. Exploring new friendships with people who share similar thoughts and goals is a great idea, and it could help you feel more balanced.
Take your time to process everything, and if you need someone to talk to, I'm here to listen. You're doing your best, and that's what matters.
