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If you could write a note to your younger self, what would you say in only three words?

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat June 14th, 2015

I had two thoughts. 1) Words can hurt. 2) Try your best.

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User Profile: WhiteKnight
WhiteKnight March 14th, 2016

Live Life Kingsize!

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@WhiteKnight

haha good one, my dear! Know your worth and believe in it. live life accordingly. No one will dare to let you down. *hugs you* x heart


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User Profile: msce
msce March 14th, 2016

Choose being happy

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@msce

The question is will you be there wondering and waiting, or will you go on with your life and find happiness within yourself. No one has the right to make you unhappy. You can be in control of your feelings at all times if you choose to. Happiness is a choice. Because no matter how much we long to be happy with someone, when we make anyone else responsible for our own happiness, we give away our very power to choose the one thing that is always in our control. There are good things happening all around you. Pay attention to those things and choose to be happy. You will be in my thoughts and *hugs you tight*heart

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User Profile: Von2am
Von2am March 14th, 2016

You deserve happiness

User Profile: Yourfairygodbro
Yourfairygodbro March 14th, 2016

@Von2am that's true, it's important to be kind to yourself.

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@Von2am

Yes my dear, you do. :) Perhaps its possible to start again. Perhaps its possible for things to be new. We know that change takes more than a moment, and we arent saying it will be easy, but were saying that its worth it. This life. This night. Your story. Your pain. Your hope. It matters. All of it matters. Youre loved. You matter to this world and you matter to the people who love you. So stay. Please stay. No one else can play your part. *hugs you tight*heart

User Profile: Von2am
Von2am March 14th, 2016

@Kash216 ahh thanks for writing all of that (/ u \) *hugs you back*

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User Profile: unassumingTree9729
unassumingTree9729 March 14th, 2016

It gets better.

User Profile: TropicalMermaid
TropicalMermaid March 14th, 2016

@unassumingTree9729

Those are the 3 words that came to my mind also.

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@unassumingTree9729

Please know, it gets better. It truly does. You are a unique and beautiful person. BE STRONG AND BELIEVE! *hugs you tight and gives my shoulder to lean on* x heart

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March 14th, 2016

I would say im sorry

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@Mae1995

i know where's that coming from. I can relate to it tbh. Sending all my strength your way, as you deserve it lovely. :) hope this makes you feel better. Love you so much x heart

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User Profile: ravenkitty1
ravenkitty1 March 14th, 2016

I would say let it go

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@ravenkitty1

I hear you love. I know how does it feel. Anyone can hold a grudge, but it takes a person with character to forgive. When you forgive, you release yourself from a painful burden. Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened was OK, and it doesn't mean that person should still be welcome in your life. It just means you have made peace with the pain, and are ready to let it go. You can do this, I believe in you. Most importantly have faith, I know it's not gonna be easy. But you will be okay. *hugs you tight for a long time* heart

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User Profile: Yourfairygodbro
Yourfairygodbro March 14th, 2016

"Change is good."

It's hard to sum this up into only three words but that's the best I can think of to tell my past self. It's because I used to be so scared of losing some people and losing the values I had then because I thought in black and white so much. Now I've learned that it's okay to be fluid in my beliefs and entertain ideas I don't necessarily believe in. I learned to calm down and not be as scared of people leaving me. I feel less anxiety now. I used to be so scared because I wanted the wrong things to be permanent but they're not and that's the most relieving realization I've ever had because now, I accept change instead of fearing it.

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Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@Yourfairygodbro

Amazing! That is always the hardest part. The fact that you did that is worth so much. I'm proud of you! :) Change is good. Change will help you move from A to B. Change will help you make improvements in your life and also the lives of those around you. Follow your bliss, embrace change. Dont resist it! *hugs you tight*heart

User Profile: Yourfairygodbro
Yourfairygodbro March 14th, 2016

@Kash216 thank you so much for understanding! *hugs back* xx ♥♥

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User Profile: cantbehelped
cantbehelped March 14th, 2016

I would say your pain you feel right now is all worth it

Im sorry i put you true this but i promise you'll be fine

User Profile: Sharky54
Sharky54 March 14th, 2016

Don't worry! Have fun!

User Profile: FrostedLemon
FrostedLemon March 14th, 2016

Don't be afraid.

User Profile: Upbeat
Upbeat OP March 14th, 2016

@FrostedLemon

That's a very important note, my dear. Dont be afraid to stand up for yourself, you should speak up even if you dont get the answer you were looking for; its the fact that you said something that matters. Have faith. *hugs you tight* and I will be thinking about you, let me know how is it going please? heart

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