Adopted and found birth siblings
Please can you help me. I am looking for someone to talk to about being adopted and finding my birth siblings. Do you know who I could talk to?
hi @aprillady I would love to have a chat with you about this. I am actually a found birth sibling myself drop me a pm and we can work out a time for us to have a good old chinwag :)
hello you said you are found what happened?
about 20 months ago i was contacted by someone who told me they thought they are my half sister - i ignored it but she was persistent and kept contacting me
one night about 2 weeks before xmas i finally talked to her and i asked to see proof that she was related to me she sent me her adoption documents and everything matched up i then confirmed it with my parent and fell apart - i cried for hours and hours that i had never been told about her and all the lies, thinking i was an eldest child but actually i was a middle one
we have skyped and have kids the same age that have talked on the phone and skyped we have sent each other xmas and birthday cards and pictures the kids have drawn
we have now been speaking daily since that point and i am going to meet her for the first time this saturday i am really nervous but she is my sister and i know everything will be fine :)
My birth sister does not want to know me
I found her and she did not know I existed - it is a very long story but a complete mess
yup my sister wants nothing to do with our half sister it can be very hard for everyone involved in these circumstances
I’m very curious if i have any birth siblings, i was in a closed adoption and i’ve attempted to find any info, and im still trying.