Looking for long-term support for shame related problem (among other)

Hi,

After several pleasant and unpleasant encounters on 7cups with listeners, I came to the conclusion that they all had the same issue: they were superficial encounters amounting to nothing more than a psychological band aid: nice to have, but easily peeled off again. For the most part the time in the chat is used to rapidly try to build up trust, so I can convey the listener information, intimate information, about my life, so he or she might emphasize with it. Taking a listener every time at random here is like eating at McDonalds, satisfying and tasty, but only to be left alone with your hunger shortly thereafter.

Therefore I would like to reach out to a potential listener in this way in the hopes to build a long-term relationship that provides me with someone to talk to and them with with a sense of actually having listened to someone and this good feeling of having helped someone in a sustained manner, which goes beyond the ususal quick-fix that both the listener and the member experience.

So if anyone feels spoken to by this post, please do not hesitate to message me to see, if we would be a good match as a listener and member.