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Looking for someone to join my loneliness.

User Profile: QC98
QC98 February 20th, 2016

I'm mostly alone... It's cold and dark with no light. But I want that to change.

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User Profile: faithfulWheel7805
faithfulWheel7805 February 20th, 2016

Hi. I know that feeling too

User Profile: cristiana33
cristiana33 February 20th, 2016

I feel lonely sometimes too. That's normal.

We can only try to find ways to enjoy our alone time and not feel bad about it AND we can try to find ways to connect with other people, if that's what we want - the right people.

Feel free to chat with me whenever you feel lonely! It's hard to come to the light... but that's okay, we all have our own time in doing so.

User Profile: Lostboymarco
Lostboymarco February 20th, 2016

I'd like to join in. I'm married and just had a baby and I feel very lonely still. Like a ghost nobody cares about

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User Profile: cristiana33
cristiana33 February 20th, 2016

@Lostboymarco

Feel free to message me when you're up for a chat :) I know how it must be to feel like no one cares, a lot more in such a vulnerable position as you are right now.

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User Profile: Lostboymarco
Lostboymarco February 20th, 2016

@cristiana33 Thank you so much that means a lot

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User Profile: faithfulWheel7805
faithfulWheel7805 February 20th, 2016

@Lostboymarco my anxiety and depression began when my twins (baby 2&3) were born last year. I'm still struggling. It is very tough. Men get forgotten. It is possible for men to get a form of PND. Probably worth speaking to your GP

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User Profile: Lostboymarco
Lostboymarco February 21st, 2016

@faithfulWheel7805 I felt dumb for feeling the things I do just because I'n the only guy I know that has felt a type of baby blues. I was already lonely and sad for a long time but sometimes it feels like everything got worse

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User Profile: faithfulWheel7805
faithfulWheel7805 February 21st, 2016

@Lostboymarco mate I promise you're not the only one. It happens a lot! Trouble is us blokes don't tend to open up about our problems. Ur not dumb at all. How are things now?

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User Profile: Lostboymarco
Lostboymarco February 22nd, 2016

@faithfulWheel7805 I wanna tell my wife what's been going on but I'm not too sure how to start the conversation. The baby is a little sick so she's preoccupied with that and I don't wanna add to that. How are you doing thanks for listening and the advice I appreciate it

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User Profile: quickwittedWheel6511
quickwittedWheel6511 February 20th, 2016

I have a family and a boyfriend but I still feel alone and not cared for. And I don't know if the problem is with me or them but I don't know what to do with myself when they're not talking to me.

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User Profile: Lostboymarco
Lostboymarco February 20th, 2016

@quickwittedWheel6511 I can definitely relate to that at home. Everybody will be with the baby or doing other stuff and I'm ignored or left alone

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