Need somebody candid to help me figure out some relationships
Aight so I've got 3 boys in my life. I love one, I like one, and I tolerate one but he's in love with me. It's a whole thing. I realize it's not ideal and it's really not healthy for anyone but I'm not sure how to approach each relationship and/or how to end or change the ones that need to change. Anyone down to help me figure something out?
@understandingPenny5149
Hey there!
Thanks for writing in the forums today.
Its always pretty difficult when it comes to matters of the heart, and you do have quite a situations happening at the moment, and I can understand why you would want to make changes to sort things out. Relationships however are made up of many components, yes there needs to be some physical attractions and chemistry, however this is the be all and end all of a relationship. You need to ask yourself a few questions, for example, who are you most compatible/comfortable with, who makes you laugh and puts you first as a priority, who you trust and if the feeling is mutual. Relationships are not just about love, you need to be able to communicate with each other, you need to be passionate, reasonable, understanding, compromise and committed, above all, honesty and trust are big factors in making a relationship successful. Who do you see a future with? Who you feel most happy with?
It seems you have some big decisions to make, and they are you to decisions to make because there is only you who is in charge of your life so obviously you are the best judge for your own situation.
I wish you the best of luck, I'm confident you are able to make the correct choice for you, however, if you would like to discuss this further, I'm happy for you to pm me, I might not instantly reply, but I will reply once I'm available.
Take care sweetie🙂