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User Profile: TheWanderingMind08
TheWanderingMind08 February 3rd, 2024

It's exhausting to borrow money everyday. I may be earning enough but my kids' father was jobless for 5 months. I've been suffering since I met him. Endless arguments, beating me up, insults, destroying things I worked hard for, the lying and the cheating. I am so done. I want to get out. I've been working my a$$ off for years and this is what I get? I also have limits and I feel oh so drained. I don't even want to go to work anymore because I feel like I'm not getting anywhere, I don't feel inspired. Last night he choked me again from back and I heard my neck cracking so many times. We fought because he carried our daughter up by the hair just for tripping on the cables he didn't set up right and his CPU fell on the floor.


PS. I'm sorry I'm not a native-english speaker, I apologize for the grammar lapses 🤓

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User Profile: hopingcandle
hopingcandle February 5th, 2024

@TheWanderingMind08

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through such a difficult and painful situation. It's important to prioritize your safety and well-being. Consider reaching out to local domestic violence hotlines, shelters, or organizations for support and guidance. You don't have to face this alone, and there are resources available to help you navigate through these challenging times. If you're in immediate danger, please contact your local emergency services. Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect and kindness.

User Profile: survivorhero
survivorhero February 25th, 2025

I am in a situation like this, financially still toed to him as he says not working. I left the house 6 months ago. I'm not getting beaten up anymore.


He said no jobs and applying for work while I worked full time ,, now after I left the house he is able to keep up all.expenses on his own. I think he has other income but he also says he wants me to pay him support for children and lied and he somehow showed he was there as I couldn't provide evidence of his absence. Trips emas,or air tickets, those were hidden from me. The judge said based on evidence domestic abuse was dismissed then children shared,

The next hearing is in Sept 2025 I have to wait to discuss

. Anyone in my situation or.not taking action at the right time and feels like a lover, happy to.talk how to cope till justice or an outcome.



User Profile: survivorhero
survivorhero February 25th, 2025

I meant loser... a typo