Being on the spectrum is making me undateable
I'm too laid-back, awkward, dependant, and not driven or motivated enough.
@pinkfloydFan6226 There is someone out there for everyone! Your partner will see all that you just said and say that was what attracted them to you. Keep your head up true love will find you.
@peacefulLove9611 Lol are you serious?
@pinkfloydFan6226 you know sometimes you can't just sit there and wait for your princess/prince to find you, poor b@@ger might be stuck in a tree or something, sometimes you need to get out there and find them 💖
@Tinywhisper11 But why would they want me??
@pinkfloydFan6226 those qualities you listed will be attractive to some people, we all like different things no two people are the same, so don't just give up. If you want to be in the dating game then get back out there 💖 one thing I will say though is confidence, most people are attracted to a confident person 💖
@Tinywhisper11 Are you serious? Who would find these traits attractive?? And no amount of confidence compensates for my many, many flaws
@pinkfloydFan6226 🙁 sounds like you've given up
@Tinywhisper11 Well, I've tried to improve myself, but it's like trying to ram a square peg into a round hole.
@pinkfloydFan6226 it's not easy trying to change yourself, so instead own it. Be proud of yourself you are the boss of you 💗 love happens when we least expect it, don't give up🙂💖
@Tinywhisper11 What, proud of being a ****-up??
@pinkfloydFan6226 no just proud of being you 💖 your being way to judgemental of yourself, I know it's not easy to see what positives we have done and are. But when you give up on yourself.... Then what next??
@Tinywhisper11 Well, I suppose I've just got to keep trying, even if it feels as if I'm getting nowhere.
You are right, I agree with you.
@HannahMitchell Well, I wish I could, but I'm finding it really hard.
Things sought from the relationship & things sought from the partner? @pinkfloydFan6226
@blissfulFlute808 Nothing I can give.
Being autistic myself, I've found it's important to take a look inward and see my faults and improve on them. I thought for a long time that my issues or faults were things I could never improve on because "well, it's just because i'm autistic" but at the very least, the things you listed, are things you can work on! I wish you good luck
@AbigailListener7Cups And how do I work on them? I struggle to focus on boring, mundane things, and need the things I find fun (guitar, gaming, my favourite films/TV shows/franchises/etc) to stimulate me and help me function.
