Break ups
Im currently dealing with a bad break up. I havent told anyone because im so scared of being a burden. My ex told me im suffocating them and that being with me has been heavy. I just dont know what to do with that information since im going through a lot of problems within the family and i tried to limit what to tell her so i dont overwhelm her but it ended this way nonetheless. Now im scared of opening up to anyone.
Awwww I’m so sorry!
You are not a burden.
Not everyone is going to treat you right, but that doesn’t mean there aren’t good people out there. You’ll get through this and learn how to trust again. And life is a lot bigger than romantic relationships just sayin’.
I don’t know what your ex thought, but if they did see you as a burden it doesn’t mean it’s true , nor does it mean everyone sees you that way. We can’t control what others think of us (to an extent) .
It sounds like you have different needs than your ex , that mean it’s a bad thing . You should find someone that has the same level of energy, wants same level of quality time , for example I was with someone who was fine with texting and seeing eachother only like once a month (for a day ) in person . I was not . I needed more quality time in person . This person could have felt I was suffocating them as well , but we just have different needs and wants. That’s ok . My advice is Find someone who matches your energy figure out your needs and communicate how important they are , if the person has different levels than you then you aren’t compatible as much as it might hurt .
