Crush on a coworker
I have a big crush on my coworker and I can't stop thinking about her. But she has a boyfriend who she openly talks about. She always smiles at me brightly and looks deep into my eyes. She sometimes invades my personal space and teases me playfully. She has added another coworker on social media but not me. Is there any chance that she likes me back? I am feeling extremely sad over this, since I am leaving the job soon and might never see her again.
Do you want to tell her that you like her? Do you want to take the risks. It's okay if you feel sad afterwards, you're only human, don't be too hard on yourself.
@Hile Firstly, when we like someone, it's easy for us to think that everything they're doing is because they like us back. She might like you just as a friend or a coworker. If you're getting mixed signals, it usually means no. We should try to find someone who is sure of us.
Secondly, if she has a boyfriend, and she might still be getting close to some other boy, then she can do the same with you in future. I think she's just being friendly.
Thirdly, ask yourself whether you really like her, or is it just plain attraction? If you really like her, then you can tell her that you have a crush on her, and you wanted her to know that before you leave the job.
You can have a cup of coffee with her, and just move on. You can try meeting new people. You can find someone who is ready to invest the same as you.
It is upto you to decide what you're looking for. Analyse that and make a decision. Your time and emotions are way too precious. Cheer up, love yourself and focus on doing things which make you feel happy and calm.
I’m currently in a long distance relationship I’ve already flown 5 times this year to him however I still live with my mom who is very protective and believes in marriage before anything and doesn’t believe in long distance relationships at all bc of this I’ve had to lie to her telling her my flights to my so have been due to business purposes this has lend me to make fake messages in order to convince her that it is true hopefully I suck at lying and she knows something is up I hate lying so much and it’s making me so sick I recently flew out to see my bf and she had cleaned out my closet new things were there and some of my things were gone too things she doesn’t find appropriate I hate lying so much but I wanna still be in a relationship with my bf it’s so hard and I hate that I’m keeping him basically a secret I hate it so much I can’t even tell her bc she’ll never look at me the same and would kick me out of the house please provide advice anyone I’m begging hard truth please
@HelpfulLee oh my gosh so sorry I’m new to the forums please ignore my text wall I apologize again
